A Stranger Involved In Your Writing of Love Letters for Girlfriend or Boyfriend?
You need NO professional for your love letters to your girlfriend! This article will lead you through an imaginary love letter (or email) circuit between you and your imaginary boyfriend or girlfriend.
Typical reactions are expected. We will deal with genuine human feelings and reactions. Are you too shy or to write? Too afraid to express your passion?
How to Write a Love Letter
The thing is, I don’t know how to express my feelings to you. Every time I think about you, I imagine you in a different setting and scenario.
Every time I’m with you, I can see how wonderful you are.
It makes me lose my words to say something.
Sometimes I have the urge just to stand and scream how much I love you. I know that at that moment, you would not be able to hear me.
That moment is no different than any other moment. In fact, that moment will become a good memory of me.
So I beg you to just listen to me. I know that I need to tell you how I feel, but I just don’t know where to start. I just wanted you to know that I care for you very much.
A Poet Who Cannot Write a Love Letter for You.
Have you ever wondered how some people could write love letters to someone like their sweetheart?
I have never seen it in my entire life.
Why? They just have the gift. Sometimes I feel like it’s just not possible, but it is not. Just take a deep breath and try to write a love letter for her. It’s not an easy task, but I am sure you can do it.
How to structure an emotional love letter to a girlfriend.
- Write to her first. Don’t write her immediately after you have met or let somebody else tell her or him about your feelings. The reason is, if she hears it from you first but very quickly and unexpectedly, she may reject you. She is a person that you need to impress the most. You have the best chance if you write to her first.
- Remember the feeling you had with her. Write her a letter that you remember the feeling you had with her. Use the exact words you used in the letter. Do not emphasize it. Just write what is in your mind.
- Write more than words. Do not be afraid to use your imagination and writing. Use your feelings and write your feelings. When you are writing, you need to have the same emotions.
- Be personal. Write a love letter for her that includes the “you” that has yet to be written. You need to be specific with her. Don’t be afraid of how you will be writing her. Just write your thoughts and feelings.
- Know what you want. Use your imagination to visualize what life would be like if you and she will be together. Use all words and the accurate details of your love life. Use expressions of your passion.
There is no perfect love relationship.
If you do not have what it takes to write a love letter for her, then you cannot expect her to love you back. It will be helpful to know what it takes for a letter to be accepted.
Here are some of the traits that you should be striving for.
* Make a beautiful letter; do not write like a robot. Be creative. Include your feelings.
* Write each night. Don’t just write a letter to her for one day. Every day, write a love letter for her. If you don’t know how to ask her, think: it’s for her benefit.
* Write from your feelings. It is best, to be honest. For example, if you love flowers, write a letter of flowers. You can use words that come out naturally. However, know that it will be very different from actual feelings. Your feelings are not like flowers.
* Write every day. Do not wait for Sundays to write. This is for your own good. This will take you around 4 months, I guess. Therefore, make the best of what you have.
If you are confident in yourself and your writing, you have what it takes to write a love letter. As I have said, it is a perfect time for emotions. Accordingly, if you don’t know what it takes to write a love letter, most importantly, you have to show confidence.
If you want to see how a genuine love letter looks like
- Go online and find love letters.
- Find a suitable love letter that suits your needs. You can choose one from thousands available on the internet.
- Write a letter of love for her.
- Give it before sunset, and it will be appreciated.
- In the evening, send it to her, asking her to read it before bed.
Now, I am saying that it will make a reasonable effort because you will not see the “I love you” in a letter of love.
Show your affectionate feelings.
On the other hand, if you write it while you’re in a bad mood, you will not be noticed.
Don’t Let Your Fear Stop You From Making True Relationships Work.
Let’s see how an imaginary, game-like love letter would look like (this is merely an essay; I’m putting myself in the place of an imaginary lover, and I’m trying to write as if it would be me):
I want to live for you. I want to build a relationship that is similar to the one that you share with me. So, I was hoping to develop this relationship with you. I know that we have not met each other by choice, so it has been challenging.
But it is not because we are not compatible. It has been hard to be with you because I knew that I was meant to be with you. You do remind me of myself in many ways. The way you talk, the way you carry yourself, and the way you look at the world.
I was able to understand now that I was meant to be with you. It’s not just because of the physical resemblance or the way that you talk. The similarity between us goes far more profound.
Your thoughts are my thoughts. And your words are my words. You have always loved me because I have always loved you.
And then, the love letter would go on like this…
I just wish that I could spend more time with you. But I don’t think I can anymore because my life is already just full enough with you.
We were never meant to be together. We have both been selfish in the past, but we have both learned our lessons.
I know that you are also confused about how you want to spend your time. There is nothing wrong with feeling confused. The problem is that I am confused too.
There is nothing wrong with being lost in thought and wondering how you want to spend your time. But the problem is that I am already there.
The way we have been brought up, I should not build a relationship with you. But here we are. And it is not fair to you to take away my choices and freedoms.
It is not acceptable to me to deprive me of the opportunity to spend time with you.
So if I am forbidden to spend time with you, I will spend my time building a relationship with you.
I will show you affection and quality time.
I will do whatever I can to spend time with you. I will try to make up for the time I am forbidden to spend with you.
And if I am forbidden to spend time with you, I will make up for the time I am prohibited.
Lots of question marks
Please, please, please make up for the time I am forbidden to spend with you. If you cannot make up for that time, then maybe it is time for you to move on to someone more deserving.
Look at the people in your life who are perfect. Notice anything that they have in common?
How are they like? The things you both love to do?
Do you also share the same likes? Dislikes? Dreams? Dreams of the future? What is the common thread that binds you together?
When you have found someone you believe to be perfect for you, it may be time for you to consider moving on to someone else.
To move to someone who has a greater chance of matching up to your criteria.
Look at the people in your life who are perfect.
Notice anything that they have in common? How are they like? The things you both love to do?
Do you also share the same likes? Dislikes? Dreams? Dreams of the future? What is the common thread that binds you together?
You’ve finally finished your love letter to your girlfriend! Well done!
Well, wasn’t this a well-crafted love letter?
Or, perhaps it’s about something else. Maybe the time has come to move on to someone new. Perhaps you feel like things are about to go off track. Maybe your relationship is going into a new phase, and you want to think of someone new.
Whatever your reasons, please do not make the mistake of not considering the consequences of your actions.
In the long run, you will be making yourself and your loved one sad.
A relationship is a precious gift.
You should use it to make your life more wonderful, not to hurt someone else.
The way to fulfill a relationship is to leave it in the capable hands of someone who can meet your needs. This means not letting your partner control the relationship. If one person already owns it, you should consider moving on to someone who really can fulfill your needs.
The rules of attraction are simple, and they are the same whether you are a man or a woman. You need to learn the laws of appeal from a credible source.
Don’t let jealousy or insecurity keep you from fulfilling your needs. Instead, follow the advice and guidance of people who have succeeded in their relationships.
As you start to put the rules of attraction into action, you will notice that you will feel more and more connected to others.
This is because you are following the advice of credible sources who have actually been able to fulfill your desires.
And when you feel connected to others, you will let yourself fall in love with those people.
And when you fall in love with others, you will feel closer to them.
By the way, if you would like to read more about I love you, too messages and contexts and occasions, click the link to my post.
How Would Your Girlfriend Answer Your Passionate Letter?
Let us see how some hypothetical receiver of your previous love letter would respond to it.
And to make matters (and this blog post, hopefully) more interesting, let’s suppose that this answer comes from your potential, future girlfriend.
Even more. I shall begin this imaginary love letter response starting with a quote from a fascinating online article:
“I’m not very good at putting my feelings into words. That’s why I write you this letter. Since I saw you for the first time, I knew that I wanted to be with you. Whenever we see each other, I can hardly think because you completely confuse my feelings. I spend every spare minute thinking about you. That may sound a little over the top, but it is true. I can not imagine anymore how my life would look like without you.”
When I think about my future, I think about you. I would like to live a life without any doubt about your feelings for me. So I write this to you. I’m in love with you.
I think about you every single day.
I want to be with you and be happy. So we would spend the rest of our lives together.
I’m scared I’m getting too ahead of myself here, but I’m going to take it one step at a time.
I started seeing someone else, and I felt a bit uneasy about it.
When I was with that person, I felt that everything he did was just for my sake. I found out he liked you, and I talked about it.
I told him that you and I are the only ones that love each other; you and I have no one else.
It was a sincere comment I made.
It hit me like a ton of bricks…
And hurt like metalworking with no anesthesia…
At that moment, it hit me like a ton of bricks. I feel like I just got hit by a truck. That’s how bad it made me feel.
After talking it over with the other person, I realized that he didn’t like you. So that’s why he didn’t act overzealously. In other words, he was trying to convince me that I shouldn’t love you.
What if I did? What if I did get those feelings from you?
This was the end of the second love letter
Well, I sincerely hope it was a fascinating response letter; and I hope you enjoyed reading it (for more articles like this, click here).
This reciprocal love letter was a little bit shorter than the first one. But, coming from a girl, it’s quite natural. She responds. And she affectionately agrees!
Many relationships are built on feelings.
If there are no feelings, no matter how hard they try to work, they can’t. People keep trying because they think it will work, but they can’t.
But then there’s this person that doesn’t let go of you.
Here Comes Your Ideal Lover!
He does things just to keep you happy; he helps you with your work, he supports you in your aspirations and dreams.
And you don’t want him to leave you.
You’re so sure that there’s some reservoir of feelings left in there somewhere. So you end up trying to keep him.
You keep him. So that whenever you start feeling something, you can tell him, “I got this from you,” “I was thinking about you, and you motivated me to write this,” “You were a good wife to me, I write this because you taught me how to be a good husband.”
And that way, you can’t breakaway.
He’s your husband, so you can’t leave him.
Suppose you’ve lost him…
But how can you get him back if he has left you? How can you find a way to have him (back)?
It’s a lot more complicated than trying to convince him to like you again or try to make him love you.
It takes time, patience, and knowledge. When a relationship falls apart, it’s because they lose that knowledge. The ladies stop keeping up with a few things he did that were important to him, and eventually, they stop doing them.
Nothing is for granted!
And they start to take him for granted. It happens because they stop knowing him, and they stop having him in their lives for the sake of him.
Try to fix It!
The first step is to get that knowledge, not by forcing it, but by learning it. Once you know him better, you’ll be more appreciative of what he’s done. And this will make him start taking you more into account.
So the next step is to find ways to spend your time with him. You don’t want to ask him for something; you want to find other ways to do it (try reading this article as well; it’s well written).
You’ll start to see yourself doing things with him that you haven’t done before, things that he likes doing.
Need a professional for your love letters for your girlfriend?
But that’s easier said than done. There are many pressures on men. Not just work, but school and career, too. Getting a man to respect you again will be challenging, and finding out ways to spend more time with him will be even more difficult.
Most men don’t want to be away from home, but they don’t want to be away from their friends, too.
Finding ways to find time for each other isn’t an easy one, but finding ways to have more contact with him won’t be easy either.
The good news is that you can start by respecting him better.
Did you forget about respect?
If you are in a relationship and think it’s healthy for you and him, respect him better.
First of all, when you respect him, you’ll know it. Then you can do things that he likes, and he’ll enjoy doing them.
And, as a result, he’ll respect you more.
You need to know that you have to do these things to keep him in your life.
You need to know that if you have another relationship, you will need to do them.
This is the apparent start of a virtuous cycle of respect and love and commitment and marriage. This is the beginning of a process that starts with care and love and devotion, loyalty, respect, and love.
There are essential things that you need to respect a man for.
Don’t stop at what you think is right. If you don’t respect him, he’ll leave.
There are no exceptions.
And… If he doesn’t respect you, he doesn’t have to love you.
And you should know it!
P.S. Most photos were used from the “Captiva Collection,” People (1) and Romance, Wedding, Pregnancy by David Watson (copyright bought and much enjoyed). The illustrations and the featured photo are from Pixabay. Thanks a lot!
P.S.2. You will find in the article several links leading you to various sales pages of products that I am promoting as an affiliate. Please, consider that if you buy through those links in my post, I might make a small commission. The price will be unchanged.
P.S.3. Please, notice that English is not my first language (in fact, I am almost bilingual). If any mistakes or strange word associations look a little bit weird, please excuse my skills. I sincerely hope that my post – Love Letters for Girlfriend. Do You Need to Hire A Professional? – was fascinating.
Thank you for your precious time!